Hello, readers –
Check out the interesting comment I just received:
“I’ve been a lurker on your blog for awhile, and though your posts are entertaining (thanks for that), these most recent posts have prompted a comment based in friendly concern.
It’s not clear from what you’ve shown here, but it seems like the folks about whom you have complaints – the vet, your roommate – are unlikely to know or have been informed of your writings on the net.
Have you talked with them about your complaints face-to-face? Do they know that these issues are being broadcast on the web? My concern is this. With your community being as small as you describe, these negative comments could easily be found via web searches, etc., eventually not showing your community, and, as a result, yourself as a community member, in a flattering way.
I realize that honesty is to be admired, though diplomatic honesty is by far the higher road to travel upon, don’t you think?”
Sigh. I have to agree with some of the Lurker’s points, especially those about me posting negative things about my roommate. I have talked with her face-to-face about some of my concerns, but not in as honest of a fashion as I have on my blog. So, I have deleted those posts, because I agree with the Lurker that they are not productive. Thanks for the reality check on that one, Lurkster.
But I do plan to keep my review of my recent experience with an Ashland veterinarian up, because I do believe that there is a place for honestly evaluating pet-related businesses on my site. Also, I did tell the folks there that I was taking pictures for a future blog post.
One thing that really bothered me about my visit with that vet was how the doctor spoke disparagingly about my place of employment. In retrospect, I wish I had been more up front with the doctor about how those comments made me feel. But oftentimes, when I’m caught in the heat of an uncomfortable moment like that, my gut response is to clam up and complain about it later to my friends.
So, on a personal level, I’ll work on that.
Thanks for the thoughtful feedback, Lurker.
One question for the Lurker: Who the heck are you, and how did you come upon my site?